Shawn Alyea
LPCOklahoma · 30 yrs exp
Supportive counselor for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Grief · Intimacy-related issues · Depression · +8 more
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This page groups profiles of clinicians who list Aging and Geriatric Issues among their focus areas and also note experience with divorce, separation and starting over. You can compare listed location, focus areas, approaches, languages and credentials as you browse profiles.
Oklahoma · 30 yrs exp
Supportive counselor for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Grief · Intimacy-related issues · Depression · +8 more
Read profileMichigan · 35 yrs exp
Calm guidance through life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Addictions · Trauma and abuse · Self esteem · +3 more
Read profileWisconsin · 11 yrs exp
Practical, steady guidance through life changes
Stress, Anxiety · Family · Trauma and abuse · Depression · +12 more
Read profileTexas · 30 yrs exp
Helping people navigate life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Grief · Self esteem · +8 more
Read profileCalifornia · 30 yrs exp
Calm, experienced support through major life changes
Family · Trauma and abuse · Grief · Parenting · +9 more
Read profileNebraska · 35 yrs exp
Compassionate, practical counseling for relationship change
LGBT · Relationship · Family · Intimacy-related issues · +6 more
Read profileFlorida · 25 yrs exp
Compassionate counselor for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Intimacy-related issues · Depression
Read profileKansas · 23 yrs exp
Supportive Kansas social worker for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Trauma and abuse · Self esteem · +8 more
Read profileTennessee · 10 yrs exp
Compassionate LCSW guiding practical healing
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Trauma and abuse · Grief · +5 more
Read profileTennessee · 37 yrs exp
Calm, practical guidance for relationship strain
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Family · Parenting · +1 more
Read profileTexas · 28 yrs exp
Experienced Texas LCSW focused on practical support
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Family · Trauma and abuse · +8 more
Read profileUnited Kingdom · 15 yrs exp
Hopeful, practical counselling for life changes
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Grief · Self esteem · +13 more
Read profileTexas · 40 yrs exp
Supportive counselor focusing on recovery and life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Addictions · Family · Bipolar · +13 more
Read profileWisconsin · 12 yrs exp
Compassionate clinical psychologist for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Self esteem · Depression · +7 more
Read profileCalifornia · 40 yrs exp
Calm, practical therapy from an experienced psychologist
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Family · Grief · +13 more
Read profileTexas · 8 yrs exp
Supportive counselor using practical methods
Trauma and abuse · Grief · Self esteem · Depression · +12 more
Read profileOhio · 13 yrs exp
Experienced counselor for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Depression · Coping with life changes · Addictions · +8 more
Read profileMichigan · 21 yrs exp
Compassionate therapist for major life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Self esteem · Depression · +1 more
Read profileOhio · 4 yrs exp
Compassionate counselor guiding practical change
Self esteem · Stress, Anxiety · LGBT · Relationship · +6 more
Read profileUnited Kingdom · 15 yrs exp
Client-centred therapist for life changes
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Trauma and abuse · Depression · +1 more
Read profileUnited Kingdom · 8 yrs exp
Calm practical support for life's tough changes
Stress, Anxiety · Self esteem · Depression · LGBT · +4 more
Read profileMassachusetts · 22 yrs exp
Practical, goal-focused counseling with compassion
Family · Trauma and abuse · Parenting · Bipolar · +14 more
Read profileUnited Kingdom · 11 yrs exp
Calm guidance for people feeling stuck
Stress, Anxiety · Grief · Self esteem · Depression · +8 more
Read profileUnited Kingdom · 7 yrs exp
Calm, practical counselling for life changes
Stress, Anxiety · Grief · Self esteem · Depression · +12 more
Read profileWhen you are navigating a separation later in life, you may face a mix of emotions and practical shifts that feel different from earlier life breakups. Grief and loss for the relationship often sit alongside worries about changing living arrangements, long-term care planning and shifting social roles. You might find yourself juggling the emotional impact of losing companionship with concrete tasks such as updating financial arrangements or rethinking housing. Anger, relief, uncertainty and loneliness can all be present at once, and your priorities may change as you weigh health considerations, caregiving responsibilities and goals for this next chapter.
Therapeutic conversations about these issues often address both emotional processing and practical problem-solving. You may want a clinician who understands aging-related health, grief, adult caregiving dynamics and the social adjustments that follow a major life transition. While therapy can help you process feelings and clarify choices, it does not replace legal, financial or medical advice. For legal questions about property, custody of dependents or formal arrangements, consult a solicitor or attorney in your jurisdiction.
Aging and separation may intersect without one necessarily causing the other. You could be managing long-standing health conditions while adjusting to a new household, or you might be an older adult supporting a partner or adult child through change. These layered responsibilities influence what you need from a clinician. For example, you may need help coping with compounded losses - loss of a partner, changes in social identity, or the need to negotiate caregiving roles with family members. Co-parenting arrangements can look different when adult children, grandchildren or elderly parents are involved; conversations about boundaries and plans for care often come up.
Because the directory includes professionals across the United States, the United Kingdom and Australia, you will find differences in local systems and terminology. Therapy can help you sort emotions and clarify decisions, but questions about pensions, property division, legal guardianship or custody should be directed to a qualified solicitor or attorney. If you are in immediate danger at home, contact local emergency services and domestic-abuse helplines for urgent support.
When you look at profiles, thinking in terms of concrete questions will help you compare clinicians. Ask whether the clinician lists experience working with older adults and with issues commonly associated with later-life separation, such as bereavement, caregiver stress, changes to daily routines and relationship transitions. Find out which approaches they list among their practices and frame them as options to discuss - for example, you can ask whether they work with grief-focused methods, trauma-informed care, narrative approaches or short-term problem-solving models, bearing in mind that a profile note about an approach is not proof of specialized certification.
Distinguish academic degrees from current permission to practice. Many profiles list academic credentials such as PhD, PsyD, MD, MA or MSW; these indicate education but not by themselves whether someone holds a current license, registration or professional membership. In the United States clinicians are typically regulated through state licensure systems for professions such as psychologist, social worker or marriage and family therapist. In the United Kingdom and Australia professionals may be registered with national regulators or hold membership in professional bodies. Profiles may show degrees and membership statements; ask directly about current registration or licensure in the clinician's listed location if that matters to you.
If you are considering remote sessions, raise practical and safety questions before beginning. Ask how the clinician manages privacy and data handling, what platform or communication methods they use, and what to expect if technology fails during a session. Discuss how emergencies or periods of crisis are handled - for example, ask whether they have a plan for urgent support and what local emergency resources they would recommend if you become unsafe. Make sure you know the clinician's listed location and how they work across different areas, because rules about remote practice vary by country and region.
It is also important to clarify scope at the outset. Online talk therapy is not a substitute for legal, financial or custody advice. If you need assistance with divorce settlements, property division or custody disputes, a solicitor or attorney can provide the necessary legal counsel. If safety is an issue where you live, contact emergency services or local domestic-abuse helplines for immediate help rather than relying on remote therapy alone.
As you browse profiles, use the information presented to form a clear set of comparison points that matter to you. Look for whether a clinician lists Aging and Geriatric Issues or related focuses such as bereavement, caregiver support or long-term health transitions. Note the approaches they mention and consider how those might fit your goals - you can frame questions like Do you work with older adults who are rebuilding after separation? and How do you usually support someone facing both caregiving and relationship change? When you see statements about approaches, remember to ask the clinician how they tailor those approaches to later-life concerns.
Pay attention to language options and cultural competence if you prefer care in a language other than the dominant language in your area. Check listed location details to understand where a clinician primarily practices, and look at their stated credentials to distinguish academic degrees from current licensure or registration. Finally, consider therapeutic style - some clinicians emphasize practical planning and short-term work, while others focus on deeper exploration of life transitions. Profiles give you starting points; follow up with direct conversation to confirm scope of practice, experience with issues like co-parenting or caregiving, and whether their way of working feels like a fit for this stage of your life.
Browsing thoughtfully and preparing specific questions will help you move from uncertainty to clearer options as you navigate aging-related concerns after a separation. Use the profiles on this page to compare focus areas, languages, credentials and therapeutic style, and reach out to clinicians to learn more about how they might support you as you start over.
Alabama
46 therapists
Alaska
9 therapists
Arizona
39 therapists
Arkansas
22 therapists
Australia
100 therapists
California
319 therapists
Colorado
53 therapists
Connecticut
36 therapists
Delaware
7 therapists
District of Columbia
7 therapists
Florida
211 therapists
Georgia
59 therapists
Hawaii
8 therapists
Idaho
8 therapists
Illinois
120 therapists
Indiana
57 therapists
Iowa
18 therapists
Kansas
35 therapists
Kentucky
31 therapists
Louisiana
64 therapists
Maine
12 therapists
Maryland
54 therapists
Massachusetts
59 therapists
Michigan
145 therapists
Minnesota
36 therapists
Mississippi
32 therapists
Missouri
70 therapists
Montana
13 therapists
Nebraska
18 therapists
Nevada
19 therapists
New Hampshire
8 therapists
New Jersey
70 therapists
New Mexico
13 therapists
New York
223 therapists
North Carolina
75 therapists
North Dakota
5 therapists
Ohio
94 therapists
Oklahoma
48 therapists
Oregon
20 therapists
Pennsylvania
118 therapists
Rhode Island
4 therapists
South Carolina
35 therapists
South Dakota
4 therapists
Tennessee
50 therapists
Texas
386 therapists
United Kingdom
747 therapists
Utah
19 therapists
Vermont
10 therapists
Virginia
52 therapists
Washington
41 therapists
West Virginia
7 therapists
Wisconsin
56 therapists
Wyoming
6 therapists