Mary Ruhland
LISW, CSW-PIPIowa · 30 yrs exp
Practical, compassionate help for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Trauma and abuse · Grief · Self esteem · +6 more
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This page groups profiles of professionals listed in Iowa who indicate experience with divorce, separation and starting over. Use the listings to compare focus areas, approaches, languages and credentials as you research options.
Browse the profiles below and click through to read each professional's summary, then contact them directly to confirm they can work with you where you live.
Iowa · 30 yrs exp
Practical, compassionate help for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Trauma and abuse · Grief · Self esteem · +6 more
Read profileIowa · 17 yrs exp
Calm, practical support for relationship and life changes
Relationship · Intimacy-related issues · Stress, Anxiety · Family · +3 more
Read profileIowa · 7 yrs exp
Support for life changes and emotional strain
Stress, Anxiety · Trauma and abuse · Self esteem · Depression · +12 more
Read profileIowa · 7 yrs exp
Approachable LMHC for relationship and life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Grief · Parenting · Anger · +1 more
Read profileIowa · 15 yrs exp
Compassionate support for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Addictions · Depression · Compassion fatigue
Read profileIowa · 3 yrs exp
Therapist who combines creativity and clinical care
Stress, Anxiety · LGBT · Trauma and abuse · Parenting · +1 more
Read profileIowa · 6 yrs exp
Practical support for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Self esteem · Depression · +8 more
Read profileIowa · 11 yrs exp
Practical support for life transitions and separation
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Trauma and abuse · Self esteem · +6 more
Read profileIowa · 8 yrs exp
Compassionate counselor focused on practical change
Stress, Anxiety · Grief · Self esteem · Depression · +12 more
Read profileIowa · 8 yrs exp
Compassionate practical counseling for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Self esteem · Coping with life changes · Relationship · +3 more
Read profileIowa · 25 yrs exp
Compassionate practical support for life changes
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Self esteem · Career · +3 more
Read profileIowa · 32 yrs exp
Experienced Iowa LISW focusing on practical change
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Anger · Career · +1 more
Read profileIowa · 40 yrs exp
Calm, practical support for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Trauma and abuse · Self esteem · +1 more
Read profileIowa · 3 yrs exp
Compassionate trauma-informed care for life transitions
Relationship · Family · Trauma and abuse · Depression · +1 more
Read profileIowa · 10 yrs exp
Practical support for stress and life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Trauma and abuse · Self esteem · +1 more
Read profileIowa · 21 yrs exp
Effective, compassionate therapy for life changes
Stress, Anxiety · Trauma and abuse · Grief · Depression · +1 more
Read profileIowa · 13 yrs exp
Practical, strengths-based support for life changes
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Self esteem · Depression · +1 more
Read profileIowa · 3 yrs exp
Compassionate, practical support for life transitions
Stress, Anxiety · Relationship · Family · Self esteem · +1 more
Read profileWhen you arrive at a directory of professionals listed in Iowa, you are looking at summaries that help you narrow candidates to contact. The listings indicate that a professional has noted divorce and separation among their focus areas, but that listing is not the same as a guarantee of a local office, a particular approach being offered in every case, or permission to practice in your exact location. You should use each profile as a starting point for conversation rather than as a substitute for direct verification. Confirming the details you care about will help you avoid surprises and make better decisions about next steps.
People dealing with divorce and separation commonly face grief, anger, uncertainty and disputes over practical matters such as co-parenting and finances. You may be navigating new routines, managing conflict, or rebuilding your social life. The profiles are organized to make it easier for you to compare experience with these concerns, languages spoken and professional credentials, but the personal fit and the scope of practice should always be clarified with the professional you contact.
The phrase "listed location Iowa" simply groups profiles by the geographic label those professionals have provided. That does not prove a face-to-face office in a particular city, nor does it guarantee an active license in that jurisdiction. If you live in Iowa and want someone who can work with you there, ask the person on their profile if they are permitted to provide care in your state and whether they operate from a specific office address in Iowa or work remotely across state lines.
Academic degrees such as PhD, PsyD, MD, MA and MSW tell you about educational background, but a degree alone does not demonstrate current permission to practice. In the United States, check for state licensing information such as psychologist, counselor, social worker or marriage and family therapist credentials. In the United Kingdom look for registration or professional membership with relevant bodies. In Australia look for registration or membership with national or state professional associations. Profiles may list degrees and memberships; ask directly about current professional authorization and any geographic limits on where they may provide care.
When you contact someone from a profile, clear, specific questions will help you assess whether their stated focuses match your needs. Ask how they describe their experience with divorce-related grief, anger and adjustment. You can ask whether they have worked with people who are co-parenting after separation, whether they support people through custody discussions by helping manage emotions and communication, and how they typically help people create new routines or manage practical stressors. If you are worried about relationship conflict, ask how they approach conflict resolution and whether they work with individuals where relationship dynamics are part of the concern.
Therapy approaches appear differently across profiles. You might find professionals who list cognitive approaches, emotion-focused work, trauma-informed care, somatic awareness or therapists who list EMDR among their approaches. Frame questions to learn what the professional means by the approach they list and how they adapt it to your situation. Ask about the types of issues they see most often and how they measure progress in collaboration with you. Concrete examples of prior work, described without client-identifying details, can give you a clearer idea of fit.
If you are considering remote sessions, clarify the practical and safety-related aspects before beginning. Ask the person whether they are permitted to provide online care to someone in your state or country, and what steps they take to manage emergencies or urgent safety concerns. If you are in immediate danger at home, contact emergency services and local domestic-abuse helplines right away; online care is not a substitute for emergency response. Online talk therapy is not legal, financial or custody advice - for those matters consult a solicitor or attorney who can advise on laws and court processes in your jurisdiction.
Discuss expectations for session logistics and how they handle documentation and records. Ask how they manage interruptions or concerns about privacy in your location, what happens if an urgent issue arises between sessions, and how you will both agree on safety plans. If you are connecting across borders, confirm whether that professional has permission to work with someone in your country and what limitations may apply. Clear agreements up front about these topics will help you feel more prepared if you decide to proceed with a conversation.
Comparing profiles effectively means focusing on details that matter to you. Look for people who explicitly list experience with divorce, separation, co-parenting, grief or rebuilding life after a relationship ends. Notice whether a profile highlights work with conflict, boundary setting, anger management or navigating new social roles. Language can be essential - if you prefer to speak in a language other than English, search profiles that list those languages and ask about fluency and cultural competence during your initial outreach.
Credentials and professional labels give you different kinds of information. A degree such as an MSW or PhD describes training, while licensing, registration or association membership speaks to the rules under which a professional operates. Ask whether they hold a particular state license in the United States, or an equivalent registration or membership in the United Kingdom or Australia, and whether they are permitted to work with people in your area. Style and interpersonal fit are equally important - ask how they describe their therapeutic style, how they structure sessions, and how they help people set and evaluate goals. You might ask for a short phone or video introduction to sense whether the interpersonal style feels right for you.
As you review profiles from the listed location Iowa, use these comparisons and questions to guide your conversations. The goal is to find someone whose experience, way of working and formal permissions align with your needs. Always verify the practical details on the individual profile and confirm permission to work together where you live before beginning ongoing conversations.
Anger
1186 therapists
Control Issues
1538 therapists
Depression
2851 therapists
Domestic Violence
742 therapists
Grief
1834 therapists
Guilt and Shame
2613 therapists
Intimacy Issues
934 therapists
Isolation / Loneliness
2393 therapists
Midlife Crisis
1173 therapists
Panic Disorder and Panic Attacks
1526 therapists
Post-Traumatic Stress
1908 therapists
Self Esteem
2614 therapists
Social Anxiety and Phobia
2179 therapists
Stress & Anxiety
3449 therapists
Trauma and Abuse
2204 therapists
Abandonment
1467 therapists
Aging and Geriatric Issues
392 therapists
Attachment Issues
1829 therapists
Blended Family Issues
911 therapists
Caregiver Issues and Stress
1491 therapists
Codependency
818 therapists
Commitment Issues
722 therapists
Communication Problems
3005 therapists
Coping with Life Changes
2333 therapists
Divorce
3798 therapists
Family
1866 therapists
Family of Origin Issues
718 therapists
Fatherhood Issues
407 therapists
Forgiveness
2308 therapists
Infidelity
836 therapists
Jealousy
587 therapists
Life Purpose
2665 therapists
Money and Financial Issues
663 therapists
Parenting
1382 therapists
Relationship
2792 therapists
Self-Love
2684 therapists
Separation
3798 therapists