David Wheatley

David Wheatley is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people navigate relationship strain, grief, stress and big life changes. He works with concerns such as anxiety, depression, self-esteem, intimacy issues and the stresses that come with caregiving and ageing. David uses a respectful, down-to-earth approach and aims to create a calm setting for people to speak openly about what matters to them.

He practises in a person-centred way, which means he listens closely and treats each person as the expert on their own life. Sessions focus on what the client brings, with the counsellor reflecting back, clarifying and reframing to help understanding. David also uses solution-focused methods to help identify practical steps and short-term goals when that fits the client’s needs.

David trained in therapeutic counselling, completing a Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling in 2021 and a Bachelor of Science in Therapeutic Counselling in 2024. He has around four years of professional experience and has worked in private practice and with the NHS. His NCPS credential is listed as part of his professional details.

He has worked with people dealing with divorce and separation and with issues such as infidelity and family problems. David aims to be sensitive and non-judgemental while helping people weigh options and make decisions that feel right for them.

When someone chooses to meet him, he approaches the relationship as collaborative. If after some sessions a different counsellor would be a better fit, he supports that choice and will help with next steps where appropriate.

How his approaches work in online counselling

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person’s experience. The counsellor offers reflections and clarifying questions so the client can find their own direction; this approach is often helpful for people dealing with grief, relationship stress or life changes.

Solution-Focused Therapy looks at what small steps could move things forward. It concentrates on practical goals and next actions, making it useful when someone wants short-term changes or clearer decision points during a separation or career transition.

Finding the right approach is a joint process. The counsellor and client will discuss needs, preferences and goals together and may blend person-centred listening with solution-focused planning as appropriate. This helps shape sessions around what is most useful for the individual.

The practical advantages of online therapy can include fitting sessions around work or caring duties and avoiding travel time. If you are considering online or other session types, confirm the available formats before booking so you can pick what suits your routine and circumstances.