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Timothy Dearhamer

Therapist · Oklahoma

Timothy Dearhamer

LCSW, LISW

Calm guidance through life transitions

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Experience
5 years
Based in
Oklahoma
Sessions
Online
Languages
English
  • Practical coping skills
  • Values-based focus
  • Support for parents

About Timothy

Timothy Dearhamer offers a straightforward, respectful approach for people facing big life changes. He helps adults who are dealing with stress, anxiety, grief, relationship difficulties, and parenting challenges. Timothy greets each person with sensitivity and compassion and focuses on practical steps people can use right away.

He draws on five years of clinical experience as a licensed clinical social worker and a licensed independent social worker, and adapts conversations and plans to fit each person’s situation. Sessions emphasize clear goals, small experiments, and learning skills to manage strong emotions. He also works with issues around intimacy, sexuality, ADHD, and career direction.

Timothy uses several counseling approaches to guide work in session. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps identify unhelpful thinking and build different habits. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy supports people in clarifying values and making choices that match those values. Attachment-based and Emotionally-Focused approaches help with understanding how past relationships shape current patterns.

People coming through a separation or divorce can expect practical help with communication problems, parenting during transitions, and processing grief. Timothy frames progress in manageable steps and checks in on what’s working. He invites clients to shape the pace and focus of therapy so it fits their life.

Conversations are collaborative and goal-focused. If you’re weighing a next step, he encourages completing the initial matching questionnaire and scheduling a first session to see if the fit feels right.

License and NPI on record

LCSW
Oklahoma · 7671
LISW
Iowa · 119203

As listed on the therapist's profile. A license can be checked with the state board, and an NPI with the national NPI registry.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseParenting issuesCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma, Iowa

Languages

English

How these approaches guide online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice what matters to them and take action toward those values even when feelings are uncomfortable. It often helps with anxiety, life transitions, and making decisions during or after separation. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at unhelpful thought patterns and teaches concrete skills for changing reactions and behavior, which can reduce worry and improve daily routines. Attachment-Based and Emotionally-Focused approaches pay attention to how past relationships shape current responses and help people build different interaction patterns and a clearer sense of emotional needs.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences and will try different methods to see what fits best. Sessions are collaborative, and the focus can shift as needs change over time.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm the available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, offer shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time around work or caregiving. It can also allow people to do some practice in their everyday routines and bring real-time examples into sessions. Licensed professionals can adapt these approaches to the online setting to focus on communication, coping skills, and planning next steps.

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does this therapist commonly address?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting challenges, career questions, and coping with life changes including divorce and separation.

What is the therapy style like during sessions?

Sessions are collaborative and goal-focused, mixing skill practice with reflective conversation. Expect a practical emphasis on what can be tried between meetings.

What background does the therapist bring to sessions?

He has five years of professional experience working with people on stress, anxiety, relationships, and parenting concerns. He tailors treatment plans to each person.

What credentials and region are listed for this clinician?

He holds LCSW and LISW credentials and practices in Oklahoma, with licensure noted in Oklahoma and Iowa.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English, and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist terms; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What steps are needed to begin therapy?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule based on the therapist’s availability.

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