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Dr. Cynthia Starkey

Therapist · New York

Dr. Cynthia Starkey

LMHC

Compassionate counseling for life transitions

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Experience
24 years
Based in
New York
Sessions
Online
Languages
English
  • Experienced LMHC
  • Focus on relationships
  • Practical coping skills

About Cynthia

Dr. Cynthia Starkey is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with 24 years of experience. She focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, and the emotional impact of relationship changes. She creates a calm space where clients can share thoughts and feelings without judgment.

Her work often centers on responses to trauma and abuse, grief and loss, and mood-related concerns. She also addresses communication problems, feelings of guilt and shame, and the isolation that can follow major life changes. Divorce and separation are listed among her additional focus areas when people face those transitions.

Sessions begin with listening to the person sitting across from her. She aims to understand what matters most to each client, and then helps set clear, achievable goals. Conversations are practical and grounded, with an emphasis on small steps that can make daily life feel more manageable.

Starkey draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to guide her work. Over two decades in practice have involved supporting people through painful losses and ongoing anxiety. She encourages self-compassion and growing skills for healthier communication.

People who choose her can expect steady, respectful support as they sort through next steps. Her approach is collaborative, focusing on what clients want to change and how to get there at a realistic pace.

License and NPI on record

LMHC
New York · 002980

As listed on the therapist's profile. A license can be checked with the state board, and an NPI with the national NPI registry.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Experience

24+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

Evidence-based approaches and online care

Dr. Starkey uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on clear goals and practical skills. One common approach helps people build coping skills for anxiety and stress through step-by-step strategies to reduce overwhelm and improve daily functioning. Another approach centers on processing grief and traumatic experiences by creating a steady, paced plan to address painful memories and emotional reactions.

Choosing a therapeutic approach is treated as a partnership. She listens to a person's situation, goals, and preferences, and then suggests methods that make sense together. The plan can change over time as progress is made and needs shift.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the current session options before booking since formats were not specified in the biography. Online therapy can make it easier to fit care into a busy life, cut down travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It can also let someone meet with a licensed professional from their home community while working on issues such as coping with separation, improving communication, or managing mood and anxiety.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

She helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief, and depression. Additional focus areas include communication problems, divorce and separation, and feelings of guilt or isolation.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is down-to-earth and collaborative. She listens first, helps set clear goals, and works on practical steps to reduce distress.

How much experience does she have?

She has 24 years of professional experience working with people on anxiety, trauma, grief, and relationship issues.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, licensed in New York and practices from that region.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions scheduled and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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