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Kristian Skillman

Therapist · California

Kristian Skillman

LMFT

Guiding steady change through life transitions

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Experience
15 years
Based in
California
Sessions
Online
Languages
English
  • Warm practical support
  • Focus on relationships
  • Trauma informed care

About Kristian

Kristian Skillman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 15 years of professional experience. She creates a warm, straightforward space where people can say what they need to say and be heard. Her work often focuses on everyday struggles like anxiety, stress, grief, and the emotional fallout from relationship changes.

Kristian helps people untangle what feels overwhelming. She listens for patterns that keep returning and helps clients try different ways of responding. Sessions focus on practical steps - clearer communication, managing anxiety, and processing loss - rather than jargon.

Her background includes long-term clinical practice in California and many hours working with trauma, grief, and parenting concerns. That experience shapes how she structures sessions and sets goals with clients.

People come to Kristian for help after separations and divorces, for relief from guilt or shame, or to rebuild a sense of purpose. She pays attention to how past events affect feelings today and works to reduce the hold of painful memories.

Kristian aims to work collaboratively. She supports clients in trying new behaviors between sessions and tracks what helps. The emphasis is on steady progress and usable tools that fit everyday life.

License and NPI on record

LMFT
California · 96592

As listed on the therapist's profile. A license can be checked with the state board, and an NPI with the national NPI registry.

Areas of expertise

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Kristian draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to support people through change. One common approach she uses focuses on processing painful experiences and their emotional effects; this helps when trauma, grief, or strong shame are getting in the way of daily life. Another approach emphasizes improving communication and problem-solving skills so people can manage stress, parenting challenges, or the fallout from separation more effectively.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Kristian collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, needs, and preferences. That means trying options, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan together.

Please confirm current session options before booking, as the biography does not list specific formats. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life - for example, it can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins during a work break, or make attendance easier when managing childcare. Licensed professionals can also use online meetings to share exercises, worksheets, and coping strategies that clients can practice between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

Kristian supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and parenting challenges. She also works with concerns like trauma, isolation, and life purpose.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her approach is warm and practical. Sessions focus on clear steps, improved communication, and coping strategies that can be tried between meetings.

What is her professional background?

She has 15 years of experience working in clinical settings and community practice. That experience informs how she structures sessions and supports clients.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - LMFT - practicing in California.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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